Hey guys, I met this goddess the other day and we went on our first morning coffee breakfast date yesterday ... it came out that she's 31 and I told her I didn't want to tell her my age until we had sex first because then it wouldn't matter to her LOL ... I was just being playful and then told her that I was 50 ... I could see her mind starting to race probably thinking about what her friends would say and what not, I could see her struggling because I know she likes me and is attracted to me ... But the date continued and we really hit it off well, but with the way the date ended I have a feeling she won't be able to get over the age hurdle, ... Which leads me to my pollfor you casanova's out there:

What's the best approach here?

  1. Back off be silent and out of communication and let her send me a sign or text me first?

  2. Just address the pink elephant in the room with her and ask her if she wants to see me again or if my age is a problem?

  3. Very soon invite her out for another date and completely ignore the age issue and let her be the one to bring it up? Spend more time with her so she can realize she really likes me and the age doesn't matter

could use some help guys because this chick is banging hot and I don't want to fuck it up

PS when she guessed at my age before I told her she guessed 40 so I'm in good shape and look pretty good for your average 50 year old

UPDATE - I decided to throw caution to the wind and asked her out again today and got the following text response, should I not respond and let her go? Ask her when she can meet again next? or what should I say?

"It's looking like I'm going to be busy all day"

This kind of text feels like the beginning stages of being blown off