Success percentage (cold approach/daygame/infield/whatever)

grrinchas · 2020-01-04T23:37:40+00:00

This information is totally useless from statistical point of view. You can’t make any conclusions cause there are two many variables which impacts your success rate.

I know guys who did 500 approaches and had only few dates with lead to nothing, I know guys who makes 10 approaches and at least one leads to sex.

So my advice, go out and find out yourself.

Hubblenobbin · 2020-01-05T01:00:22+00:00

I wish there was more data on this. Here's one guy's progression.

http://daygamenyc.com/2020/01/01/im-now-an-intermediate-level-daygamer/

In my case, it took me around 50 approaches for my first lay. After around 3k approaches I had around 14 with 7 being 8's and 5 being 9's. I also almost exclusively nightgame, which seems way harder to me.

I talked to RSDTyler one time. He was saying that if you get lays in your first year, you're ahead of schedule. Year two should be about 3-4, year 3 you should be doing 15+, year 4 you start killing it 50+ and from there it only gets more epic. So the growth is exponential. Judging by how my mistakes occur, this makes total sense to me.

Everyone starts from a very different place. I think for a guy who's social skills are trash when he starts, 1/400 approaches going to a lay makes sense. Your highest chances for lays are if the girl is on vacation for a few days to two weeks. If you hear "but I'm only here for a couple days..." a small part of you should be thinking "BINGO MOTHERFUCKER" .

Like /u/grrinchas said though, it's highly variable and you should take these numbers with a Mt. Fuji composed entirely of salt.

bournit · 2020-01-05T09:00:52+00:00

What daygame really is ? I think tons of guys misunderstand this. Daygame is NOT a fast, easy, cost less way to get laid. If you want that, go to tinder, and hope you're the lucky handsome boy.

Daygame is, absolutely, the fastest way to learn. Daygame is about one idea only : "If I can't get laid as my friends, if I am not so good with women, if I am not satisfied with my results, I'll throw myself into an endless series of error, mistakes, rejections, in the shortest time ever, so that I will be, in some years, really different".

I do it since 1 year, and no bullshits, I got only 1 lay and bunch of dates. Am I good at it ? No. Did I spend on it a lot of time ? Yes. Do I like to get out and still get rejected ? No. Why am I doing it ? Because I understood the reality.

And because I prefer spending time on free rejections, rather then spending time, money, health (alcohol involved) in nightgame.

So, at the end, the question that you have to do to yourself now I think is this : considering you're actual starting point, considering you're shy and maybe you have few options, and maybe you live in a big city (the only strong requirement for daygame), would you prefer having some lays in the easy way but remain the same in years, and then falling into wedding trap or into a oneitis relationship, or going out, doing A LOT of work, and, despite you have success or not in the First year, LEARN how women really "work" ?

It is short term investment Vs. long term investment, you decide about it

Mojito51 · 2020-01-05T21:17:28+00:00

CRUCIAL Point: If you are doing daygame, make sure you convey to her that "it just happened" as opposed to conveying that you are just out looking to game girls. Open by simply observing her and the environment as opposed to telling her "your attractive" right away. Yes, you will establish that man-to-woman vibe, but the SPONTANEOUS nature of the convo must LEND its way towards that direction.

For nightgame, however, you will EXPLICITLY let her know you want to fuck her. Seed the pull at first. Convey your identity. NEVER go for the # during nightgame; only the pull.

Contrary to what I said before, both are good to do. Just understand that the context is different, and it needs to feel more spontaneous for the girl of you are doing daygame. As a man, you should do both imo.

Mojito51 · 2020-01-05T01:41:44+00:00

Do nightgame. Fuck daygame.

You can still do daygame, but night game gives better context.

Also, never take #s at the club. Always go for the pull (during nightgame)

Title	Success percentage (cold approach/daygame/infield/whatever)
Author	AverageSecondaryAcc
Upvotes	5
Comments	7
Date	January 4, 2020 10:53 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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