Suggestions for night game for someone who dislikes socializing?

FearInoculumTool · 2026-02-04T01:46:52+00:00

Go out very late at night. Like half hour before closing time. Look for women who have their backs against the bar and who are scanning the crowd. These are usually the ones who are ovulating and looking to get laid or at least thinking about dick. Avoid women who are just teasing men for attention, women who seem to be huddled up and talking to each other, but have a closed off body language.

Then make contact with one of the girls at the bar, who is facing the crowd and if you can hold eye contact for 3 seconds then start walking toward her not breaking eye contact and with a huge fat smile on your face and say “Hey, my name is (insert your name here), what’s your name?”

Don bother with creating attraction or any other bullshit like this. Just think, if this girl doesn’t annoy me in the next 5-10 minutes and I still like talking to her, I’m taking her home to fuck.

AlastairXXL · 2026-02-03T21:26:00+00:00

Go clubbing and watch the dancefloor. Approach at the end

Budget-Kick822 · 2026-02-04T00:18:46+00:00

Go with a friend/wingman.

Or stop being a baby and just learn to find ways to make talking to people enjoyable. Self amuse, be genuinely curious. If you go to a venue and think none of these people could possibly be interesting to talk to except the hot women, you're going to shitty venues and/or you have some false sense of superiority.

If you can't happily talk to other people you're going to be so much worse in 2 sets and group sets.

Talking to other people also warms you up socially.

Eloyoley · 2026-02-04T00:32:10+00:00

If you're prone to extroversion it's interesting to be hypersocial (create good vibes, reduce approach anxiety and even it could create some social value) but it's not necessary. Arrive to the pub/bur/club, enjoy yourself (dance, meditation, your drink, talk with your wingman, whatever) while scanning the attractive girls and approach. Given that it's a numbers game you will entertain yourself only approaching. In my little experience in nightgame the group is overrated, there are too much noise and in practical terms you only speak with the target or maybe the most closed friend too.

Plane_Benefit7868 · 2026-02-06T22:11:36+00:00

Go to venues that actually have people with the same interests as you. I like underground music and trendy culture, I go to underground shows and my friends invite me to trendy bars. It helps if you’re in a big city. Other alternatives would be parties with people you actually like/understand/want to get to know.

Dandys3107 · 2026-02-08T10:57:29+00:00

And why would you go there to socialize. Come to the girl and look her in the eyes. Then you leave.

Title	Suggestions for night game for someone who dislikes socializing?
Author	Relevant_Occasion_33
Upvotes	1
Comments	11
Date	February 3, 2026 9:15 PM UTC (6 months ago)
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