Tactics Tuesdays: Do You Command, Suggest, or Request Her Compliance?

Hector_Castillo · 2018-01-05T18:37:56+00:00

Hey boys,

Here's an article I recently wrote on whether to command, suggest, or request a woman when you want something from her. Each one has a specific usage, a specific risk, and a specific reward/failure dichotomy.

Here's a snippet.

ACCEPTANCE IS MANY PEOPLE’S MOST VALUED CURRENCY It’s not an irrational priority. Acceptance keeps you warm and almost guarantees you’ll be taken care of, at least for the barest necessities.

However, it also puts you in their service (whoever “they” are). You are beholden to others.

The price of acceptance and safety is duty and subservience.

Thus, people do prefer being ordered around, or they would do something about it. They prefer the pain of their shackles to the pain of being possibly ostracized or killed.

And to never cross that boundary of servant to peer or master, you must watch your tone, as the vast majority of our life is based on how well we socialize with our subordinates, peers, and superiors.

Commands are used by superiors, and most people are subordinates.

Asking is multi-layered. It slightly depends on the tone and context (like if you ask for information, that’s just normal socializing), but since the topic of this article is compliance of action, asking is definitely the least dominant option.

Suggestion is the middle path. Unless you’re very below someone’s level, or the situation is none of your business, or they’re a control freak, they won’t take issue with you suggesting something.

Thus the vast majority of people don’t know how to use commands or won’t use them when it matters, like with women they’re trying to date.

And that’s a shame, because women like to be ordered around by their superiors. It gets them wet. Women want to be subordinate to their lover.

The more dominant you are, the wetter she is. The wetter she is, the more you can get from her.

WHAT’S THE DIFFERENCE?

To illustrate the differences between commands, suggestions, and requests, let’s say, for example, you’re on a date with someone at a restaurant. You’ve finished eating, and now you want to leave the restaurant and head to the club. There are different forms of expressing this, and each has its own flavor and impact.

Command: “Let’s head to the bar.”

Suggestion: “We should head to the club.”

Request: “Do you want to head to the club?”

The dominance hierarchy is obvious.

Command > Suggestion > Request

DOMINANCE MODIFICATIONS

Now, you can tone down the dominance of a command or suggestion with an upward inflection at the end of the phrase. This can combine a command or suggestion with a request, making it a hybrid.

Title	Tactics Tuesdays: Do You Command, Suggest, or Request Her Compliance?
Author	Hector_Castillo
Upvotes	1
Comments	4
Date	January 5, 2018 6:34 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/7od756/tactics_tuesdays_do_you_command_suggest_or/
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