Now, I have experience with women, I can chat one up and I’ve seduced and indulged in a few, but I’ve always been lacking in one department:

Prolonged physical contact.

I always tend to tense up and not know what to do when a girl goes for a long hug, lays her head on me, I lay my arm around her, cuddling, and the list goes on.

I’m not foreign to the concept of physical contact. I know how to give a firm hand shake and a playful pat on the back.

But when I get into the nitty gritty of flirty flirty touchy touchy, I start to overthink to myself, wondering “am I being too tense? Is my arm too heavy? Is this uncomfortable for her?” This in turn shortens the physical contact and she ends up just keeping to herself.

I want to be more physically welcome to this type of contact and make sure they’re enjoying themselves. Tips and advice?