Text game in relationships

dpawz · 2014-05-28T13:30:29+00:00

Attraction is lost if you text 24/7, from experience.

2014-05-28T14:32:35+00:00

Infrequent, random, spontaneous texting can keep IL up, sometimes even boost it.

Text terrorism is pathetic.

whatdoy0uknow · 2014-05-28T17:39:37+00:00

I always think before I send a text, "is this more interesting if I say it in person?" if it is I wait til the next meet.

Call_Me_DoctorBadass · 2014-05-28T13:50:50+00:00

It depends. I have more text game than normal in-person game, so I tend to text more. However, it's important to keep in mind that people need their space, so consider the volume of texts you send per day and limit it so that you do not overwhelm your S.O. with clinginess.

2014-05-28T15:54:32+00:00

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pimpin8ez · 2014-05-29T06:16:19+00:00

I think it's the same as working your game in general. If you look desperate, they'll lose interest. So constant texting is bad. If you always respond immediately, you look like you have nothing better to do.

I turned on read recipes, and use it tactfully. I can still see the preview of their message, but then decide when I actually read it. Since they know I have read receipts on, they can tell when i haven't read the message and when I have. Generally, I wait a while before reading, then wait a while before responding. BUT, once I start a convo, I give them my full attention, which I think is a good thing. I chat for a while, and then pull away BEFORE I feel the convo is going to run out of steam, that way they're left with wanting more instead of getting bored.

bl1y · 2014-05-28T14:58:00+00:00

How much are you currently texting the girl you're in a relationship with, and how has she responded to that?

Naa2078 · 2014-05-28T14:55:42+00:00

You can build interest and rapport through a good text session. Be interesting. Ask questions. Make her want to know more about you.

It's basically like most other conversations, but the kino isn't there. If you do it right, it jump starts your kino when you DO see her in person.

thefamiliarsound · 2014-05-29T06:02:49+00:00

There's no right answer. I have girls that I only text when I want them to come over. I have girls that i chat with on and off throughout the week and send stupid gifs and shit back and forth. I have girls who I frequently sext with. Just be aware of what works with each individual. If you dont feel like texting or you're too busy at the moment, then don't do it. If you're sitting around relaxing and feel like chatting then send the text. Do what you feel like doing.

alex0919 · 2014-05-29T23:41:13+00:00

Female attraction is a hard concept for many guys, it's not about looking good or having money.

The second you turn into a needy bitch and text her all day, that attraction wanes exponentially. Keep texting to a minimum outside of arranging meet ups, if you need to text her, use it to rebuild a little rapport, like how her weekend was, and asking her how something went she told you about. Those things are attractive, not detailing your whole fucking life to her.

Just think how much you invest in a girl when you have a "text session":

It distracts you from improving your life even more than it already is
You need to use your mental capacity to carry on a conversation with someone who isn't even in front of you

Cut the texting, it's the best thing you'll do in a long time.

gadfish · 2014-06-04T19:02:03+00:00

I actually disagree with most of these responses. I like a text or two every other day. It shows you that they are interested.

Title	Text game in relationships
Author	tibistanescu
Upvotes	4
Comments	13
Date	May 28, 2014 1:18 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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