Texting Cheat Code | Call her out on the Silence |

sasquatchington · 2020-04-16T23:22:13+00:00

Damn, people are that thirsty when it comes to a fuckin text message? If you do your job right and have a life you won't be worrying about text messages from women. If shes blowin you off dont give her more attention and negatively reinforce her behavior. Shut that shit down when you see her if shes got her phone out, otherwise ditch the chick who just isn't that in to you. Why clamor for attention?

smoothmax · 2020-04-17T15:51:58+00:00

Calling a girl out for not texting you rarely works. She doesn't owe you a text. So don't be a fuckin' pest and a whiny bitch.

Two ways to get women to text you more: (1) be interesting and funny when you text her and when you see her IRL and/or talk on the phone or facetime her. (2) Be patient. If she ghosts you then ghost her back. If she likes you, she will text you sooner or later. If you can't stand waiting then calm the fuck down, get more girls to text, or get another hobby.

exampLeN1 · 2020-04-17T19:36:24+00:00

If she starts to back off, acts cold etc. just do the same. I maded a mistake recently: she started saying that she "doesn't feel the same anymore", that she "needs time" and I just started chasing her more and more...that shit NEVER works.

If she backs off, you also back off. If her interest level is high enough she will text again...if not *uck her, she is not the only one.

MrMemper · 2020-04-16T21:21:57+00:00

Stop it with this moron

br0therbert · 2020-04-17T01:38:27+00:00

You can’t force someone to text you. People have their own lives, let them live with bothering them, which is all this is going to do.

People want what they can’t have, and this stratagem is the antithesis of that principle. If she isn’t into you, do you REALLY think a clingy text like this is going to be what changes that?

Thebussinessman · 2020-04-17T14:45:04+00:00

It seems needy.

Glapierre · 2020-04-16T21:08:37+00:00

TL:DW Summary

Let’s say if you have been texting a girl, and the interaction has overall been positive

If there are instances where she goes silent and sometimes she goes silent multiple times in short successions

What you can do at this point is to call her out on the weirdness of her texts.

Todd’s example is a little bit cringey so I’ll let you guys use my example which is more modern and puts yourself in a much higher frame

“I didn’t know that I had that much of an effect on you. Texting your crush can be nervous wracking”

Anything along the lines of, “I like this girl, but she seemed to have vanished into thin air. Should I be concerned?”

Understand that you should have a text ready for that scenario. It should be a text that points out the weirdness of the situation.

It’s very effective because you’re still being entitled and showing you’re a man of value, and it shows it in a playful and fun way.

This ONLY WORKS if the texting was generally positive throughout the whole time you’ve been texting her.

If it’s been generally negative, it WILL NOT WORK!

This also will work if you have been texting her and you say something before that doesn’t really give her room to respond.

If you answered a question directly and didn’t add anything else to make her want to respond, these texts are great because now she has room to respond and she still knows that you are interested in her

Again, this WILL NOT WORK if you respond in a butthurt way nor if you haven’t built enough value during the texting. Make sure to get your social capital up and use this method when it’s necessary.

Good Luck!

Title	Texting Cheat Code \| Call her out on the Silence \|
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Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	April 16, 2020 9:08 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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