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[–]Ice666White 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Everyone makes this whole topic ever so complicated. I suggest you take a read of Message Game and learn a few things there. It will be very useful.
Don't be messaging her constantly. But message her logically before the date to comfort each other that it will go ahead. For example:
'I'll be wearing red, so look out for a scary looking me.'
[–]TheHalfMonty 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Text her the morning of the date to confirm the details. You don't need to text her till then, you're a busy guy. But if she texts then you should respond.
[–]savyq 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
you dont want to be clingy so the if the next date is set up just let her do the text or call or wait until the date
[–]Insaneflirt_max 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Don't spend more than a full day without texting. If she's shy she's gonna think you forgot her. Don't have to be a huge convo.
If you're busy, send her a meme and maybe 2-3 follow up texts.
[–]Billywhiskerino 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
Well, now I’m not sure what to do as I’ve received two contradicting advices, haha.
[–]TyranosaurusLex 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Hahaha. I usually go with a happy medium. Hit her up at the midway point with something (probably funny— to chat a little). Then the day of to confirm. Basically everyone’s preferences will be different so play it by ear, but texting a ton is generally frowned upon but not texting at all ever can be too much also
[–]Billywhiskerino 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think that’s the way, I will write her after NYE how her party was, etc. - It’s gonna be a good excuse for a little, justified chat.
[–]TyranosaurusLex 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Agreed. Sounds like a good plan
[–]Clingflimg 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Dont text anything. See her at the date - you need to appear as though you assume the dates on. If the details aren’t set ring her the day before and just say ‘what time are you free tomorrow’ then tell her the time and make an excuse to end the call and tell her you’ll see her tomorrow.
[–]Insaneflirt_max 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Pick your choice and tell us who was right.
:d
[–]missigal50 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh I think you should definitely text her, just not excessively. I agree if you don't she might think you have brushed her off.
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