We all want a strong inner core, to beat AA, to accept rejection and break-ups without getting moved. Well... in my opinion all of this is fiction.

When people discuss inner game, the goal is not to deny your feelings. Approach anxiety and the ups and downs we feel from dealing with women are natural feelings. They won't go away, it is neurochemically impossible, straight from the brain structure itself.

Therefore, a new question arises, if we cannot make bad feelings disappear, what is the point of inner game. Well, the point is about acceptance, acceptance of both the good and the bad, the ups and the downs. This is true inner work in practice and it starts before the approach.

Many have pointed out, that if your life is on an upswing, then rejection barely matters. But this is exactly what we described, emotional acceptance under uncertainty. In short, Inner Game is about developing Courage!

That is the important insight, inner game is not dealt before the approach, inner game lies post the approach! Make the mentality switch, everything will be smoother in your soul.

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