Do you think a pro athlete consults a checklist before he steps on the field? Does he remind himself, “OK, don’t forget to catch the ball this game?” Of course not, because he’s beyond that level. He has trained himself to be an athlete, he has made everything he does second nature. There’s no thinking, there’s just action.

If you want to be successful with women, you can’t have game, you have to go beyond. You stop trying to seduce women and become the kind of person who doesn’t NEED to seduce women.

If you’re out there counting seconds between eye contact or seeing which women are touching their hair or trying to peacock, you’ve already missed the ball while the athlete didn’t need to even look, he just put his hand out and the ball was there.