If a guy here tells you his issues--and it's a long, long list of generally objective facts about his deficits--doesn't it make sense to compare your advice with reality? In other words, look at the guys around you and how they operate socially, and the usually innate advantages which jumpstarted their ability with women.

Somehow, when many of you come up across the "low probability guy" looking for help, you throw all this reality out the window. May I ask why?

So the problem I'm seeing is these guys are too often led to believe they have a chance, when there's an unfathomably low chance they could ever be attractive to women. Positivity in the face of this is a disservice, NOT a help!

Don't even say "it will be much harder for you but still possible." Give them the facts in tune with the extremely long odds they would face in attracting an elitist of the opposite gender, which they all are (we're not being PC today, folks, no point in challenging this general fact.)

I think you should just say "forget about it" and leave it at that. Will save these guys a lot of time, maybe lead them into something far, far better than a life with lust--like, maybe, Zen Buddhism? Cuz it ain't happening and you know it.