This place depresses me lately, the only advice I see here is written by social guys who are saying the most important thing is social skills.

And an assumption is being made that's very offensive for me. Which do I refer to? The assumption that every guy reading this advice is equally capable. You are incorrect.

Is there NO OTHER advice out there besides "become a social animal" anymore? Apparently this "become a social animal" is now the default position on this part of Reddit. In other words, if you don't have looks, money, or status.. the advice offered is "become social." But some guys are missing the goods, and it just won't work. These guys need to find another way. In other words I am trying to say, "If a guy has little to offer and he can't be socially active, there still has to be a way."

So I'm actually going to suggest something that may seem strange, but I'm quite honest in the request. Instead of guides that say this:

"Go to the bar with buddies, talk about your college degree, yada yada.. go on these dates, following these mainstream cliches: "Tell her it's a date ahead of time, and make sure you offer to pay" .. yada yada,"

How about guides that say this:

"You're autistic and getting older and full of resentment, because you could never fit in anywhere. You gave up on the idea of any kind of mainstream life, and actually, you never even wanted it. You have seething resentment and anger for such things and probably wouldn't play along even if you could.

Well, don't be too worried, because there are ways to attract women WITHOUT following that conventional path, in fact, you don't even need status, and you don't even need a social network. Let me show you how it's done..." etc.