I hear a lot of complaints and frustration about being in the friendzone. It's usually guys who fall into the friendzone and women who put us there. This recent video is telling: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T_lh5fR4DMA . The video basically demonstrates that every guy who is friends with a girl would have sex with her if she wanted to have sex, and every girl who is friends with a guy knows this, at least on a subconscious level. Guys end up in the friendzone because they think that comfort-building will somehow magically lead to sexual attraction, OR they just don't make a move quick enough when attraction is there.

If you are strong and willing enough to put any woman into the strangerzone, you will never find yourself in the friendzone. If you can distance yourself enough to the point that you could care as much about what happens to her as much as you care about any other stranger on the street, then you will protect yourself from unnecessary heartache and oneitis. The opposite of love isn't hate, it's indifference. Women who want attention are slightly perturbed by a man who is indifferent to whether or not she gives him attention. This is the initial spark of attraction. SHE's worried that you'll strangerzone her, and if she doesn't show attraction now, she knows you'll leave, forget about her, and find some other woman. And you will find another woman, because you are outcome independent, and will keep going till you stop going. Finally, if she really just that isn't into you, it doesn't matter. She was a stranger before, she's a stranger now, and you'll both probably forget about each other rather quickly.

TLDR: Strangerzoning girls preempts the friendzone.