I'm a lurker on this subreddit. Not that interested in picking up girls but love the tips and use them when I need them.

A few months ago I read a post about being confident using "the touch". There was an amazing amount of examples in which the OP talked about instances where placing a hand on the back of someone has been beneficial to them and why it works and I think it's extremely important to second that. The touch fucking works. Two weeks ago I took a friend out dancing and was constantly putting my arm on her shoulder and making sure she knew I was listening. When I wanted to move from one area to another I would just place an open palm gently but firmly on her back to guide her without saying anything. Half way through the night she started becoming flirty and told me this. " I love when you put your hand there". I obviously thought I was friend-zoned but the touch got me the fuck out of there. I'm not saying it always works, but god damn will it help you no matter what.

For those of you like me who have no idea where to start, I found that its really easy to figure it out with friends. I would just start placing my hand on a friends shoulder when I started a conversation and touch them when it felt appropriate. Eventually I moved on to females, coworkers, and now complete strangers.

The touch fucking works. It gets you the other persons undivided attention and it shows that your comfortable in your own space and going into others.

It you haven't tried it yet, I highly incorporate it into daily interactions.