That is the best name I could come up with. I've been lurking on seddit for a while and think I have pinned down my problem.

I'd classify myself as AFC, but meaning "Atypical Frustrated Chump." I have never been "alpha", and with one recent exception have never actively gone after a girl I really wanted. For the most part I've just been doing my thing and every so often some girl catches my vibe and comes after me. As a result I have had several relationships, some great, some not so much. Most of them were ended by me after realizing that a "good thing" wasn't "my thing" and moving on.

Seduction theory drew me in because I realized that my passive approach was yielding results that were sub-optimal. I was content, but not satisfied. I'm ADD as hell, and LAZY, and without the incentive of being emotionally en fuego about a woman I just lose interest. The obvious problem being that I have no middle ground, no room to play the game. I'm either all-in on full chump mode, or I just don't care. This has recently become painfully acute, as I have become less driven by getting my dick wet and neurotically preoccupied with finding that infatuation I need to have any motivation at all. I am self-defeating because any spark I do encounter is snuffed out by the projection that it will just be the same thing, over and over again. I have oneitis for a girl I haven't even met yet.

Errata: 28, college degree, budding stages of a career. Financially stable, own a car, very independent. Fit appearance, actual fitness above average. Socially competent, but, "I'm a loner Dottie, a rebel." History of depression, possibly sublimated to an unconscious level, but I don't really feel any sort of bad right now.

So what say you, Seddit? Step back from the heavy apples and get analytic on my ass.