Thoughts on alcohol?

GeeseCTM · 2020-01-19T18:50:21+00:00

Alcohol is unreliable, and if you think that you need to drink in order to get into a seductive mindset or place, then you're always going to want to drink in order to get there. That's the beginning of being an alcoholic.

I do like to drink. I got s***-faced yesterday seeing karaoke at a bar with almost no people, unfortunately it snowed a lot so it wasn't that busy.

But, more often than not if I want to actually meet women, I'll actually meet them during the daytime, because I know that I won't be drinking and getting sidetracked and doing other s***. Because when I drink it's usually a shitshow of me having fun, and yes I can be attractive to women, and I can attract women, and I do score dates, but honestly, I'm out to have fun, not just meet women.

So after a while my focus gets fuzzy and I'm not focused on trying to pull girls from a night club or bar.

Besides that, if you really want to practice and get good, not drinking, will be the way to do that. So, in my early days I would go to nightclubs, and I would make myself do a few sets before I even bought my first drink. Going out, getting into that attractive vibe, learning and applying, is going to be way more effective if you're doing it sober.

There are even times where I got into a super attractive vibe, before I had a drink, and having one or two drinks actually destroyed it.

So get out there, and learn to be social without using alcohol. And that if you want drink, but like I said, if it's for learning and applying and getting better at seduction, try not to drink at least part of the time, however, like I said again. If I'm in a bar I want to drink, that's the whole reason I went there besides being social.

So what's the answer? Balance.

milojkomkd · 2020-01-19T18:44:39+00:00

Depends on the culture. For example here in the Balkans we drink a lot, male and female. Mostly on every occasion, most of the working places allow drinking while working, weddings, clubs, kafanas, while studying, and etc. When we go out we usually drink about 5 beers. I personally haven't had any problem with alcohol since it good for every social occasion, but with gaming, nah I wouldn't do it.

johnstarkson · 2020-01-21T04:19:24+00:00

such a double edged sword. I tend to be anxious so drinking gives me the freedom to talk to ppl and also I've noticed it allows me to connect w/ women on a deeper emotional level. But at the same type "performing" on it assuming you get to that point can be a bitch

grrinchas · 2020-01-19T18:39:32+00:00

There are only two occasions I use alcohol:

Some girls have trouble to relax, and they need alcohol. But they don't want to drink while you don't. So, I make them comfortable by keeping company.
Sometimes drinking alcohol is a show of respect due to traditions. E.g. drinking with her father.

There are no other reasons to drink it.

To_Much_Too_soon · 2020-01-20T04:20:05+00:00

We used to have a Rule back when I doing pick-up

No. FUCKEN. ALCOHOL.

Alcohol is always bad for Seduction

Title	Thoughts on alcohol?
Author	whirleymon
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Date	January 19, 2020 6:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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