Social media is basically a representation of your lifestyle. If you want to bring girls into your life beyond one night than you need a cool lifestyle, and it needs to be captured on social media so they can see it.

Instagram seems to be the most important tool for this job. More people have it than Snapchat and it also has the "story" feature which is very useful for day to day updates.

So really social media itself isn't that important. The important part is living an awesome lifestyle and occasionally capturing it with pictures and videos so girls can see what you're up to.

The real question is what should your lifestyle look like?

My current approach is to attend local events, visit nearby landmarks and go on outdoors trips. These work well for me because I don't have a reliable social circle yet and I can find people to participate in these activities with me online. They also look good in pictures and are fun to attend. Once I get a social circle going I plan on organizing more custom events such as cottage trips and boat rides.

I think the most important part of lifestyle to attract women is that you're doing outdoors activities. Women always talk about how they want to go on adventures. I'd also say it activates a primal circuit in her brain when she sees a guy out there "conquering" other lands.

I don't think you need to go on extravagant trips to foreign lands to accomplish this. It's better to get to know your own area so you can show girls around, know what's happening on a given night or time of year and get to know the people who also attend these events. The whole "glamourous IG lifestyle" is not required, and probably counter productive for the average guy.

I don't think you need to post pictures very often. You just need enough to show the girls what you're about (ie a business card). Once you have that it's more about regularly sharing on your story so they can see what they're missing out on when they aren't hanging out with you.

So the basic idea here is that you do fun activities and post them on IG. When you close a girl she sees what you're up to and will want to meet up. She then becomes a part of your social circle. You keep bringing girls into your circle, your social media presence gets more attractive, your confidence goes up, the quality and access of women just keeps getting better.