So for as long as I can remember I've been going through a repetitive cycle on tinder that I don't understand. Any advice/explanation is helpful.

So basically I've been tindering on and off for years now with very little dates to show from it. Actually only ever had one at home (from Ireland). I've been going through this continuous cycle that goes something like this:

I match with an attractive girl, and we start hitting it off. I'm quick to get their attention with some wit and have a funny back and forward chat. Usually when it's going well I get a number/Snapchat within a few hours aswell as suggesting meeting up, with them agreeing. Once I get their numbers and I move away from tinder the chat dies. Like nearly instantly, from going 100mph to zero response. And know it's not because I've said anything inappropriate,etc. As it usually happens when I am trying to solidify a day/time to meet (usually drinks)

I believe it could be the closer they are getting to actually organising a date they back out. Maybe my problem is I tend to rush it slightly too fast.

That being said I've travelled a bit the last few years and used this same approach (In Mexico and Australia). With most numbers/Snapchat exchanges resulting in meeting up. Like going on a date with someone within hours of matching.

I'm not sure if it's the timid Irish mentality that girls have here, that's just more withheld than other countries.

Has anyone had this sort of problem before? Any advice on sealing the date?

Thanks Pad