Allright first off openers

Things like Hey, What's up , I like your profile picture as a first hit are Garbage don't even try it i tested it hundreds of times and you only get responses back from ugly / desperate / stupid people.

This is what 99 Percent of guys do and believe me in online chat / dating / whatever .... the average guy likes to show his cock on the second message.

The best Thing I found so far was '' Hey can I ask you a Weird question '' it's even better than a personalized remark on her profile it works all the time I get responses from girls that answers 1 out of 100 messages a day ( I asked a lot of them for that stat i'ts approximate but pretty spot on the 99% / 1 % rule ) try it it's stupid how much it works !

General answer is Usualy Yes / yeahh... / of course :) / Shoot ( good first contact is done )

1% of them respond with no I usually respond with '' you're not very adventurous '' I manage to save 40% of them but that's not a very satisfying number ( I need some help here )

I ask one simple non-threatning question

  • who Lies more men's or womens ? (classic works great on anybody)
  • Do girls prefer dress shirts tucked in or out ? ( great with 9's and 10's feminine girls love to talk about shirts for some reason )
  • (Looking for your ideas / input here )

20 % If she answers with only one of the choices I try to get her more involved in the conversation either by just replying ''Interesting !'' sometimes I add '' interesting ! why would you say that '' or Interesting i would have said the opposite ''

if she gives me a more elaborate answer I say '' Ohh ! Well thought out answer hey 2 more of those and I'll be interested ( works like a charm! sparks her desire to convince me she's smart )

after that you can use Style's 3 things that would make me want to know you better can't be about looks that he did on Jessica Alba. Solid stuff

If she answers something and why would you ask that ?

you just answer oh well my friends and I were debating this the other day and I wanted a different Input, also I think it's a better opener than the typical '' hey'' '' hey sexy '' , If you want to talk to somebody interesting might as well make yourself look interesting right?

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oh well my friends and I were debating this the other day and I wanted a different Input and also I think it's a better opener than the typical '' hey'' '' hey sexy '' would you have preferred that I said that ?

From this point on you can small talk her or do whatever you want she's pretty invested in this conversation and you're well established as someone different / interesting

I like to throw a little bit of cold reading after small talk I'm getting pretty solid at it this might be for another post it gets attraction going and her desire to meet you in person

Anyway i'm looking for variety and constructive critique but please specify if your tips are Field tested / online tested / or just Ideas anything is welcome I just want to know how trough do I have to test those before having the certainty that they work rock solid

Anything I wrote here was Tested 100% I indicated the details that I feel needs some more work and those that are close to 100 % concrete winners