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[–]UniqueSnowFlakke 8 points9 points10 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
When you start feeling a way you think will make the situation weird, use it instead of trying to hide it, vulnerability is attractive to some
[–]Seddit420420420 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This
[–]fayajoshua 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
What do you mean?
[–]UniqueSnowFlakke 5 points6 points7 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
If you feel anxious be a little anxious, you could even say “woah I must be anxious or something my g”
Maybe not the My G part
[–]ThirtyWize 7 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link
Maybe you've heard the saying be genuine or authentic? Be bold and show her your enthusiasm when you first meet. Embrace her with a nice hug, smile warmly, pay a compliment. These are all things that show your interest in her.
Where you need to be careful is not to continue this attitude the whole date. You start out very warm (think how excited a dog gets when their owner comes home) to show her your true intention. But as the date progresses, settle into a more natural style of interaction. This is where you tease her a little bit, be a little challenging.
This is a little advanced, but the idea is to keep the interaction loose and fun. You should always be thinking keep it playful. Avoid bombarding her with boring life questions, but take interest in subjects and ask questions about things she seems to enjoy talking about or takes pride in.
If you do just that stuff, you should have a good first date. And, be sure to give her some playful nudges, find little ways to brush her arm or leg and show her you like touching her. Just be receptive to how she feels when you do it. If she seems unaffected or smiles then you're good, if not then back up a little bit.
Most important, have a good time yourself. Whatever energy you're putting out will rub off on her.
[–]xxsimplyjosh 3 points4 points5 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This also if u notice she pulls back drop a statement of empathy, and pull back to show yes im aware of your feelings and i acknowledge/understand it by complying...
This usually makes the interaction better since she can see you are aware of these subtle moves
[–]jakeroviks 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Take her somewhere you want to go. Worry about your own enjoyment, you're the captain of the boat and she's just along for the ride.
My best success has come from just going on a walk around the city. You don't need to buy anything. Simplicity is good.
[–]ntipz0112 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Well, does she know you have a penis ?
[–]rantown 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Also...one tip....don't text back n forth for two weeks. Leave something to talk about on First Date! 😀. Ask about date after 3 days texting.....Carpe diem. - seize the day!! Bring some wintergreen mints....like 6-7 of em... utilize one 10-15 mins before making out. Offer her one also... after dinner...if you are doing dinner.... if you hit it off well, give her a kiss when you get close to the car. Don't let nervous tension build, ever! You'll be fine
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