Tips for making out

themanbat · 2012-10-01T04:47:24+00:00

Chewing gum is your friend. No one likes kissing bad breath. It can also help you if her breath isn't stellar.

Swallow your spit. No one likes kisses that are too wet.

Step By Step:

Hopefully you've been using kino, and finding excuses to touch this girl all evening. If not sit her down next to you on a couch and put your arm around her. Gently caress her arm and say something like, "Wow, your skin is so soft." If she doesn't want to be kissed her body language will show you and you can back off a bit and lay further ground work to get her ready.

If you're nervous about starting the kiss, here's a good method. With you free hand, slowly and gently brush her hair out of her face and back behind her ear. Instead of breaking contact after hooking behind her ear, slide your hand gently behind her neck upper neck. Then gently pull her in for the kiss.

The Hitch you go 90% she goes the last 10% on the first kiss is never a bad idea. Plus if you stop and hover less than a centimeter before contact the tension will make her want it even more. Then she'll come and get it. If you want to flirt and piss her off a little, when she tries to go in for the last 10% pull back, and say something cute like, "Whoa, are you trying to kiss me on the first date? What kind of guy do you think I am?" This will likely make her want to kiss you even more. You can mess with her a little bit, but at this point you can go ahead and take that kiss completely whenever you want.

Before the first contact you want your lips to be slightly apart. The first couple of kisses should be some nice gentle "plum" kisses (notice what your lips do when you say the "um" of "plum.") Then experiment.

Don't just shove your tongue down her throat. Gently tongue her lips occasionally while you kiss. This will get her in the mood for some french kisses and you'll feel her tongue coming out to explore too before long. Note, as you do finally work up to shoving your tongue deep into her mouth, don't be afraid to grind a bit up against her with your body. Girls love French kissing on a deeper level because it's suggestive of penetration. And since you're headed toward penetration it pays to be as suggestive as possible.

Occasionally break off and kiss/run your lips across her neck. Bite very very gently in the vampire zone. Later you work up to slightly firmer neck action. Make sure you don't go crazy because most people don't likes it when you leave marks. But definitely work the neck because I've never met a girl who doesn't like kisses on the neck. If things get really hot and heavy you can occasionally work your way down past her collar bone and kiss her chest a bit.

Do not just let your hands sit there. Use them to massage and move and hug almost constantly. Great make out doesn't really come from the lips alone. Start out in safe places like her side, back, neck, but eventually don't be afraid to run your fingers up and down from her rib cage to her knee if things are going really well you can start gently but firmly caressing her inner thigh, each time getting a little closer to her panty line, but definitely don't go all the way until you know she's absolutely dying for it. Don't be afraid to reposition her and move her around a bit. Ladies like it when you take charge.

Don't worry. You're a natural. Everyone is nervous before the first one, but you'll catch on real quick.

P.S.

Some people like kissing in public, which is cool too, but ideally you want to take them to make out in a private place, like on the couch less than a stones throw from the bed. Then it's not just making out, it's foreplay, and your goal is to drive her so wild with your kisses that she begs you to take her to the bedroom.

DuTag163 · 2012-10-01T01:36:55+00:00

-Brush your teeth, kinda obvious but it works. -Don't use tongue right away. Seriously, it can send the wrong kinda vibe if you start with it right away. -Ease into it. Start with kissing, and it should go from there. -You can't necessarily fuck up making out. Well... Unless you overthink it, then you're royally screwed. Also, and this depends on the situation, but HIDE YOUR BONER. Seriously, it can totally kill an otherwise successful makeout session. Believe me when I say this, it made all makeout sessions totally awkward. -Lastly, and I can't stress this enough, try not to worry about it. No overthinking it and you should be good.

ObiWan111 · 2012-10-01T03:18:29+00:00

Don't just stick to the mouth! You want to kiss and lightly bite her neck then nibble on her ear lobe.
Use your hands. No, this doesnt mean go for the boobs. Run you hands up and down her arms, legs, and back. Massage her neck while you're kissing her. Hit her erogenous zones, particularly the ones on her hips.
Have fun and don't stick to doing any one thing too long.

2012-10-01T03:19:14+00:00

DuTag has good advice. You have to start slowly, gently getting a feel for her lips on yours. Pull back every once in a while and look deep in her eyes. Slowly build up to more passionate kissing and start adding some tongue. Pay attention to shallow use of the tounge. Remember, you're not trying to tongue-fuck her throat. She will not like that. Just kind of gently start playing with her tongue and exploring a bit. Again, the key is to build up intensity GRADUALLY. Change sides occasionally, mix it up.

Your hands should synchronize with the energy of the kiss. At the beginning, just have them holding her hips or whatever. As you get more passionate, pull her into you more firmly, start exploring a little. You just don't want to have your hand going apeshit on her tits like you're milking a cow. Once it starts getting really passionate I like grabbing the back of her head, get your fingers in to her hair to get a grip gently by the roots. You're NOT pulling (yet =P), you just want a firm grip. That's about it. Most importantly, have fun. Good luck.

2012-10-01T03:26:18+00:00

If she is giving me some love back I like to step up the hotness level by lightly grabbing her neck. Kind of guiding her head to where I want it. I find girls will tend to switch the 'approach' direction, meaning her head, and sometimes this annoys me. It sounds weird typing it out, I'm not choking her or anything. Just placing my hand on her neck lightly. I think this makes her feel 'secure'. OK so I'm not the best at wording it but seriously this works wonders if used correctly.

Going off the switching head direction, this also works for you as it can keep things fresh and exciting.Every so often switch from a rightward tilted head to a lefty southpaw approach. Mostly I just like to control the situation as I feel that's what a man does.

Also BE CONFIDENT. Don't pussy foot about or be super timid. You are the man GET SOME, don't be shy. On the flip side don't be a pushy bastard, if she isn't into it either correct yourself, or (if things aren't clicking) move along.

Captain_Bassdaddy · 2012-10-01T20:29:42+00:00

Because it will be your first time, simple tips. The advice other people are giving is all legit but it's too much for you to remember for your first time. Breath is important, buy a tongue cleaner (they're dirt cheap, basically just bits of plastic, but they'll give you longer lasting clean breath. Also, they're really important for general hygiene anyway. Obviously brush teeth, floss etc. and avoid foods that will make your breath smell even after brushing. Gum isn't that great, it's awkward when you have to get rid of it, mints are better.

Secondly, it's actually quite easy, we're programmed to do it. My first kiss was with a pretty inexperienced (as far as I'm aware) girl too so it was pretty sloppy but it was still nice. Just start slow and gradually build intensity if the girl is into it too. Use your hands but don't start grabbing her tits or her crotch. One thing I like to do is push up on the ribs with one hand (fairly gently, i'm not trying to make it uncomfortable). It's not only a generally passionate way to hold someone but it's also moving her tits without directly touching them so it's not too forward but it's still teasing her erogenous areas. Just enjoy it man, first kiss is special for some, trivial for others. I look back on mind with fondness. It doesn't matter how bad it is, just enjoy it.

Title	Tips for making out
Author	throwaway19281
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Date	September 30, 2012 11:41 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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