Before I start this isnt usualy me, I usualy dont care that much if the first date doesnt go well and she bails with that being it because its onto the next one. However on saturday I hooked up with a girl who I pretty much instantly crushed on, due to how incredibly in sink we were with everything, constantly finished eachothers sentences, and Iev never had so much in common with any one period.

It even carried on into the date yesterday with the conversation always being solid, no problem with keeping it going for the whole time, but the scariest/awesome (been looking for this for soooo long) is that most times I would ask a question, ie favourite meal, she would reply with a very VERY close if not the exact same answer I would give.

Unfortunatley with it being what seemed like a good date with her giving minor IOI's, I continued gaming her (eye contact, minor kino, kept her laughing ect) when I went for a good bye peck on the lips she pulled away even after saying she really enjoyed it and would like to go out again. She gave me another hug instead so I was kinda confused.

Now she isnt starting any text conversations, hasnt replied to one or two of them so Im going to go ahead and say its not happening, to which im honestly pretty depressed about as finding a girl I would seriously like to have a relationship is soooo fucking rare for me now days.

So any tips to deal with this state? and please dont just say "do something fun!" because that doesnt work.

TLDR; How to not feel like crap after being rejected after a first date by a girl you got feelings for extremely quickly.