Hi Seddit. I've been reading a lot in this subreddit lately since I am newly single and want to conquer something I have never been able to do. Approach.

I've been pretty lucky with women because I always met someone through people. Now, after a very long relationship, I want to learn how to meet and pick up girls during the day mainly.

There is a boot camp coming to my town in a few weeks and I am wondering if it is worth the money. My reasoning is that I'll keep putting off or getting intimidated of actually going out there and doing it on my own.

Maybe by paying the money and having someone there to encourage me is what I'll need. I have extreme approach anxiety and lose my personality completely. People assume I do ok with girls since I'm outgoing and can adapt well to social situations.

What do you guys think? Pay the $1300 or just push myself to learn it on my own?