so i'm big on the general rules of seddit texting. its helped my game alot, basically

1.) only use your phone to make plans, if you want to share or talk or be intimate physically or emotionally with a woman, do it in person or its just a fucking waste of time.

this point has been further strengthened in my experience with female coworkers i know. I see these confused mid 20's girls, and they'll literally talk to like 8 different guys a day. the guys will of course doormat and give them all nice compliments and agree with them, but then these guys NEVER get these girls and never get pussy. i know when i was younger I was victim of this, this kind of senseless ego boosting girls will do, especially with text.

....but then. sometimes I feel like a cold asshole. i just had my best friend mention, she was like i'm dating two guys so I sent them the same text to see how they'd react. or been told by a few girls 'oh i like this guy because he is honest and texts me to be aggressive and asks me out".

so is it ok for a guy to really just text out of the blue and be aggressive and make a date, or wait for a sign of interest for any type of action. i've been seeing this girl on and off for a few months. we've hooked up, its been great, but she's young and detached overall. before she'd text sometimes but I kept away from any text game. now its rarer, which I like cause i'm not some texting bitch and when i see her its usually very sexual. but the sometimes i feel too detached, too much 'in the game' which i hate. a friend once told me just whatever your'e about to do, ask 'is that the type of man i want to be' and then respond accordingly, so like to me being a guy that rarely texts but maybe 1-2 times a month texts oh i miss you lets get together, thats ok right? or is the best way to deal with any ambiguous 'on the fence' girl just to be a man when your'e with her and then never contact her unless she shows more interst?