Too much texting before first date?

meltboro · 2024-03-13T19:38:18+00:00

Answered a million times here and many other resources. Texting is for making plans only, you can follow up after a date with one or two connective things like memes if you want, but especially before limit conversation as much as possible even if she wants it, it is never in your favor

chips_and_hummus · 2024-03-13T22:50:28+00:00

you don’t need to text as much. however, if the girl is enthusiastic and into it, it will not hurt you. i disagree with people saying it’s never in your favor. it can make the first date more exciting when you’ve actually had some conversation before hand. it sounds like the conversation is going well so you’re doing nothing wrong. however, if you’re running out of stuff to say then just slow down the conversation. you don’t have to keep the same rate up.

you don’t need to keep her interested at this point. if she’s gonna flake she’s gonna flake, regardless of what you do now. just make sure to confirm the date day of/day before. that’s how she’ll know you’re still interested

CompleteEducator2966 · 2024-03-13T20:00:24+00:00

The problem with texting a lot with people you've never met before is that there's a much higher risk that you do or say things that turn her off than doing or saying things that make her more attracted to you. So it's best to limit as much as possible.

Total_Obligation_371 · 2024-03-13T23:37:51+00:00

Just the concept of thinking you need to keep her super interested until the date shows a little bit of neediness and insecurity. She's already interested. I'm honestly surprised she hasn't lost a little interest from the amount of texting you've already been doing. You don't need to text anymore. If she texts you, you can respond and maybe have a small back and forth, but don't feel the need to actively do all this stuff to keep her interested. She's already interested. Trust yourself and your value.

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-13T21:07:04+00:00

She is not into you. You never accept a tentative date or someone giving you the runaround as in "Call me before the date to see how I feel about it". What fucking shit is this? It's actually quite embarrassing that men are so desperate for pussy that you will accept that and be so nice and accommodating to someone who obviously lacks respect for your time.

Puzzleheaded-Cook116 · 2024-03-14T03:59:25+00:00

It can be too much but any time I’ve had a lot of contact before meeting a girl, by the time I met her she was just ready to fuck lol so it’s not a terrible tactic

Title	Too much texting before first date?
Author	Prince_Mince
Upvotes	5
Comments	11
Date	March 13, 2024 6:58 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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