I'm 6'2" have a big smile and not unattractive. Something I noticed last night while I was out, everyone seems to find me threatening when I'm standing or on the dance floor. I was out with my buddy last night and he's much shorter, and because of this it seemed like when we were on the dance floor and other crowded areas people tended to open up to him a lot more.

On the flip side, when I'm sitting down outside a club on the bench and people walk by, I get smiles for days they have no problem opening up to me and I generally have a much better experience. Does anyone have any similar experiences, also how does a big guy come off as, well less big, and big at the same time so I don't get scowls when I stand up?