Top 7 things you can do to get good fast

skcin7 · 2012-06-19T16:54:25+00:00

I think this article is overcomplicating it, but everything they say is very true.

The #1 thing you can do to get good fast is GET OFF OF REDDIT AND GO OUTSIDE

Personally, the #1 thing that quickly helped me get good fast is making direct eye contact to everyone when I talk to them and exhibiting good posture and body language.

2012-06-19T23:56:57+00:00

For me it's hitting a motivation plateau. I'll do 3-6 sets a day for 30 days, get some results, go on a few dates, not get laid and then I'll be frustrated for like 2-3 weeks. It's hard because my effort and work isn't yielding the results I want. However, only being into this for one year, I am happy that I am able to get dates with 4 girls in 2 weeks, and I am able to bring girls over to my place after dates considering I haven't even kissed a girl and was a virgin for 26 years, the fact that I am able to bring girls over, make out with them and finger them, is huge, I can't really complain. If I spend 2-3 more years (4 yrs total) out of 26 years of being a virgin, thats only 15% of my life, it's going to take more than that to have a full identity change.

As for details

I know that a lot of girls are receptive when I approach them direct
I'm usually too scared to escalate more than I need to
My leading is weak
get a lot of cockblocks, ASD, LMR

The solutions:

I want to push my comfort zone and get comfortable with harder escalation by doing it 3 times a day for 30 days
I want to practice my leading every day (and move girls around) for 30 days
I want to build sexual experience and confidence, which will come naturally as a result of my efforts, and will solve problem #4

All I have to do is approach and work on 1 and 2, and 3 will happen naturally, and my results could only get better. All that is required is 60-90 days of consistent effort. I remember there was a day I couldn't approach direct, after doing 100 direct sets in 30 days, now it's a joke. In time hard escalation will be a joke too.

itsmevichet · 2012-06-19T19:34:26+00:00

This is a good thing to keep in mind for noobs.

It's also a really good refresher for the more experienced guys out there.

I think one thing to remind noobies, though, is that eventually they have to start finding out the answers to these questions themselves. So many people begin relying on the crutch of having instructors and material to turn to, that they never have to stop and look at what they really want.

Learning is about becoming free of constructs, not chaining oneself to them.

That's what I eventually picked up, anyway.

Title	Top 7 things you can do to get good fast
Author	Warped_Mindless
Upvotes	45
Comments	5
Date	June 19, 2012 3:54 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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