Is touching too early a bad idea? A girl told me that me touching her in under ten minutes (the first time we met, at a picnic I organised for some people) somehow destroyed the tension between us. I guess my intentions with her were too clear with that.

But I have read lots of seduction advice that touching early is good. So what is it now? Shall I wait for bit longer and raise the tension before the first touch or nah?

She still wenr on a date with me afterwards. But yeah, maybe I am too direct?