So, at the moment my goal has been to keep pushing myself slightly more everyday and slowly get better. I’ve gotten much better at approaching and conversations with women, but at the same time I’ve never managed to have it really go anywhere.

Some questions:

How do you tell if she is interested? I know this is kind of vague, but I was chatting up a girl in a coffee shop and she seemed into it, we were both making strong eye contact, but I didn’t really know what to do after that and wasn’t sure if she liked me so I just ended up saying goodbye and leaving.

Is it bad to talk too much and steer the conversation? I have a tendency to talk a lot about stories and stuff but sometimes get worried that I’m not giving the other person enough time to speak or respond.

What’s the best way to transition the conversation so that she knows I am interested in her? I think my biggest fear I’m trying to overcome is letting women know I’m attracted to them. Right now during conversation I tend to come across as a friendly gay dude because I don’t actually express interest.

Help would be appreciated as well as any advice. Thanks