People always joke about it being impossible to understand women. Google image the words, and you see a comical photo of a man reading a 10,000 page manual. I know it feels like women are impossible to talk to sometimes, but they are actually easy to understand with the right mindset. They don't need a 10,000 page, book, regular book, or even a pamphlet. All you need is one sentence:

Women's thoughts and actions are almost always based on emotion.

That's it. If a woman is acting flirty one day and not the next (or minute to minute for some girls), it's because she is in a different mood. That's it. If she kisses you one second then gives resistance to her bra coming off, it's because her mood changed (enter anxiety in that case).

Imagine a world where whenever you got mad, everyone around you instead of ignoring you or telling you to get over it, got concerned and took measures to make you feel better. If you had a bad day, you could cry to your dad, gf, co-worker, or others and it wouldn't be awkward (it would actually feel like a release). Imagine being able to express almost every emotion you feel in an emotionally supportive environment. People were okay with your expressions, and a healthy number encouraged it.

Now you are a woman.

There is no need for validation of emotions in a woman's head because they don't feel a need to. That's it. Female rationality is not logical, but emotional. This is why you can't win an argument with a girl. And society encourages this. TV shows and movies for women are loaded down with emotional episodes, soap operas being as addictive as a drug to some women. When a GF accuses her BF of cheating on her without proof, she calls it, "Women's Intuition." If she flakes out, it is because she feels like it. There is nothing you can do about this. Girls are emo, or as some say, "Bitches be crazy." But you can use it to your advantage.

If this seems crazy, ask yourself this. When a girl is confused about a guy, she tries to get him to talk about it, because she knows he will open up a bit and she can see what he is feeling. A kid can have a problem. His dad offers a solution, but his mom gives him a hug.

Using it to your benefit is the tricky part. But that's where Seddit comes in. But before you do anything approach the girl knowing she is just going to go with whatever she is feeling right then : This is why I approach women who are already happy, because a lot of the work is done for me. I also stay away from flakes because IMO it is much easier to seduce a girl with strong, consistent emotions than weak, fleeting ones.

To conclude my outrageously abstract post, I offer some concrete, practical advice: from now on read women and TRY to see what sort of mood they are in. Do this for all girls: your grandma, co-worker, friend, stranger, ANY GIRL. When you get good at that you can start saying and doing certain things to encourage a certain emotional responses... ;-)