Hey guys, it says to make a clear title but i really didn't know how to word it. Hopefully you clicked out of curiosity! Alright so let me start off by letting you guys know i am no noob but this girl i am seeing is quite different from all the typical stories on here and also by personal experience. She is really interested in going out and dating and just doing couple stuff. We have done a lot in the past month ranging from romantic ice skating to a great hike. Recently at the top of the mountain, while on the hike i felt like it was time to do a little kino since i felt comfortable and she seemed great. So she is the kind of girl where you cant initiate immediate touch, so i came out with a cute pick up line "Here i got you something" and you reach into your pocket and come out with a tight fist and you tell her to pull her palm out as if she is catching the thing in you hand, BUT you have nothing in your hand and you simply grab hers. I thought it was cute but she refused to hold my hand. It seemed weird for a second because i wasn't sure i was underestimating the body language correctly. So oh well we move on to proceed down the hill and i flat out ask if she wants to hold hand because i wanted to make sure i was understanding correctly, she says "no thanks". ~I even said my hands were cold.~ Well i kinda lost it there and zoned out and told myself that she wasn't worth it and im not sure why we are spending time together. As we walk down we start to talk about really deep things like R.A.P.E (you know religion, abortion etc.) Well we have opposing view points and that's great right? well we get down to the subject of god and how we need to pray for america(haha). She then asks if im atheist, and i kinda reply with a you cant prove god or disprove ( same bullshit as always) and i felt like she was getting pissed and she started to walk faster to the car and i was like, you okay? "we still friends?" she said yea but when she gets home she will probably think about it ( fingers crossed she is still cool about it). Down the road we get humgry and we stop at a shop to eat and we tlak really deep again about past relationships and i ask her about her previous boyfriend and if she still was attached with feelings. Yea says no and shes moved one. I'm just finding this relationship untypical and different because i feel like she thinks we are together but we barely have physical contact. We have also talked about how being a boyfriend and girlfriend requires a lot of work and you always expect something, for example texting a lot (im not a big texter) and she likes that. She prefers to "not label it" what we have is an "unlabeled relationship". What do you make of this guys? Is it better to keep what we have or to force some kind of kino? Im a little confused. We are dateing because she metioned how she likes sushi and i said" oh, we can go in a month i guess" and she was like "what??" As in a date.

Sorry if i make no sense. LOL also we were at the shop and we were choosing sandwich size and i said" wow they have 14 inches" and she flat out says," what? is that how big your dick is?" i was in awe. Please help me understand this reddit. I'm confused AF

TL;DR : Girl is confusing AF to what she wants. Edit: Gild=Girl