Does anyone here identify like this? If so, please describe your situation with "meeting women." A guy like me, needs some hope, after all.

Does anyone know guys like this, who actually have women in their life (but without compensating with job/money)? Describe the "workarounds" said guy employs, to avoid being screened-out indefinitely. Snide answers not needed.


Let me explain the problem/paradox of being like this. If you don't know what I mean exactly, I mean guys who are "always playing from behind, lack sharp wit, lack instinct for competition, they go left whenever everyone else goes right, their posture/speech is a tad bit different" etc. So if you're like that, if you approach women in public, you have a high risk to come across strangely or even creepily.

Within a social circle, you're automatically the "unimportant guy with little to offer" so of course, no one is interested.

In terms of online dating, even if your pictures are good, you're screwed in conversation because you don't have the "wit" to get a response; not to mention, you lack anything good to put in the career/income category.

Across all different options we have today, in NO scenario, site, place, or location, do you have any way to get your foot in the door.

Nonetheless, if somehow "my thinking is wrong" and "guys like this" still get women, let me know. One needs to hope, after all. (The escort agency is closed, before anyone mentions that)