Walking around during daygame and doing...nothing

kettlebell_workout · 2020-09-20T09:22:13+00:00

Do warm-ups, man.

When I feel like you. I just approach random people (promoters, charities, religious people) and talk with them. Or you can approach people with a dog and have a conversation. I even talked with grandma at the bus stop. She told me about the vegetables she grows in the garden. You get the idea, the main point is to loosen up your tongue.

Then try to stop walking people and ask for a direction. Lol, I was doing like 20 front stops per day for few days. And became really good at this. This gets rid off "stopping anxiety".

After this, you should be able to approach a static set, a girl who is standing or sitting.

Walking around not gonna change much.

relentless_pma · 2020-09-20T09:04:28+00:00

I feel you. Man I’m in the same boat.. it’s not easy

Godisgoodkj142 · 2020-09-20T10:35:00+00:00

These 3 words have done wonders for me.........

"Hey, what's up?"

I shit you not. it is the easiest damn thing to say. Then just say whatever else you want after she responds. I know what you're thinking.. "Well what do i say after?" Trust me all you need to do is break the ice and something will come to you and it will be natural. I'm not kidding it really works (at least for me it's never failed). They say hi back and I've said things like

"i'm new here and wanted to introduce myself.." (because i had just moved there so it was true!),

"Where are you from?" (based on her accent which i was surprised to hear),

"i heard you laughing back over there" (because i heard her laughing!)

"I was wondering what type of pictures u take" (she had a camera with her)

The point is that i totally understand because i used to have the same freeze up, and the problem would always come back to the fear of not knowing what to say, which then leads to other fears like "oh i'll look stupid" or "ill be bothering her". Maybe it's not these 3 exact words for you, but even "HI" or "hows it going?" is something. Just break the ice and then see what happens. it's all part of the fun. you're trying to find if there's natural chemistry there, and just breaking the ice and then seeing what happens is the best way

if you do try this out let me know how it goes i'd love to see if it works for others

quinnmcd · 2020-09-20T14:04:24+00:00

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Title	Walking around during daygame and doing...nothing
Author	relentless_pma
Upvotes	2
Comments	6
Date	September 20, 2020 8:41 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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