Yo seddit,

First time posting here.

First time in a long time, been out hunting. I was hanging out with this 8/10. I picked her up from the local eye glasses store. During the first date, she seems to genuinely care for me whenever it appears like I'm stressed from work. Beyond that we don't talk much about anything since don't share much interests. I was rather stoic to her because of the language barrier (her english is no good). At the end, she definitely was into me as she was comfortable with holding hands and kissing.

Earlier this week, she called me up and tells me she's been stressed at work. She's crying but won't admit it. She suggested a date because she wanted to see me and try out her tiramisu cake. We were supposed to meet up to chill out on Tuesday. However, She cancels last minute to do something "important". Yesterday was supposed to be the rescheduled day and again she cancels 30 minutes before the meet up time. She tells me it was important because someone was making her souffle. Now this was a test, she sent me pics of the souffle along with a condescending voice message about how good was. Probably to invoke jealousy. I replied, "but it certainly doesn't help your weight" (she's very sensitive about her weight). She now wants to make up for it today by seeing me. I haven't replied at all.

At this point, I completely cease all communications. I can't disrespect myself and be dicked around. If I accommodated her, its likely she will do this again making it tougher to get with her. The language barrier didn't help with getting further but a girl who isn't consistent with her commitments is not worth the investment.

Anyways it was an interesting exchange, just wanted to share for thoughts? Going back out there soon.