Went out. Got rejected.

lucidlife0 · 2019-05-17T14:33:15+00:00

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CarlCarlton · 2019-05-17T20:53:19+00:00

got rejected about 6-7 times

Good. You've fallen. Now rise, and do it again. You'll fall again, and rise again. Keep doing it over and over. You'll stand up longer every time. Don't let the mud win.

PeithoPan · 2019-05-17T22:50:22+00:00

Alright! Well done!

You went out and practiced your pickup. What did you learn?

Nothing?

I can not see any analysis here. I can't see description of any sticking points or questions on how to improve on a certain stage of a set. How do you expect to get better at this if you don't try to figure out *what* went wrong, only that it did?

I cant comment on the 6 rejections, but the one giving you her number I can. You asked for her number way to early before even making a lasting impression on her. That is clear.
You have to learn how to escalate your sets.
Approach, rapport, touching (during rapport), isolation with escalation to the close, kiss, invite home to bang or number.

If you follow these stages, always making sure that she *wants* each stage to happen, and likes what is happening, when in the end you end up with a number, she WILL remember you.

To make absolutely sure, fire off a "Was nice to meet you, [insert joke nickname you made up during the encounter]! [Insert observation about something funny/weird/cool that happened that night]", around the time you go to bed (1 hour after leaving her).

About good looks. Good looks only matters if she is less attractive than you. A guy can accept a complete retard girl if she is hot enough, but a girl dont have time for a insecure dude that cant keep a conversation going.

so if you want an easier time, go fo rthe less attractive ones for awhile to build up confidence and skillset But be honest about your intentions. Dont pretend you want a relationship if you dont.

IntoxicatedOrange · 2019-05-17T15:07:41+00:00

Brooklyn Mirage?

lucidlife0 · 2019-05-17T15:59:21+00:00

Yea alot from my experience. I will say having drinks and smoking probably doesn't help my game but it helped me get passed not approaching.

Many people say the hookup culture is easy here but I've only had a tough time Unless I settled for whatever comes my way but I don't. I have standards.

I'm trying to get out more. Since I've moved here I haven't tried too much because I don't like rejection and i learned that if you don't try then you don't get any. So now I'm trying.

Whats your thoughts on gaming here in the NY?

lucidlife0 · 2019-05-17T16:56:29+00:00

So the girl texted me back. Doesn't remember who I am. So much for that

lesntoomy · 2019-05-17T19:34:59+00:00

Try daygame but 6 out of 7 os good! 1 out of 10 is good i get abou 1 out of 15

lucidlife0 · 2019-05-17T21:16:15+00:00

Thanks. It does really hurt.

theosamabahama · 2019-09-02T14:17:41+00:00

By approaching 7 times in one night, you already did much more than most guys. You should be proud of yourself. Most guys won't even approach once.

Title	Went out. Got rejected.
Author	lucidlife0
Upvotes	2
Comments	21
Date	May 17, 2019 2:24 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/bprwo8/went_out_got_rejected/
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