What could I have said differently?

Woujo · 2016-10-17T15:09:14+00:00

Her name was Kitty. I told her "That's probably not your real name, what is your real name?"

You shouldn't have said that. You are attacking her. Don't ever attack a girl like that.

Look, she told you her name was Kitty. For whatever fucking reason, that's what she wanted you to think her name was. You saying "durr, that's not your real name" is calling her a liar and telling her that her game she's trying to play is stupid. Of course she's going to react shittily. What did you think she was going to say? "Ok, you got me!! How did you know Kitty wasn't my name"

Whenever a girl tells you a job that sounds fake, or a name that sounds fake, or anything that doesn't sound right, it's because she's trying to hide something from you. And guess what - that's her right. She doesn't owe you anything. Now, if you're in a relationship with her, you have a right to find out the truth, but if you just met somebody, they have the right to hide anything they want from you.

And she said, "It's none of your business." I got dumbfounded by her answer and just went "Okay.."

I think she reacted correctly.

*What could I have said/acted differently?"

You should not have attacked her. When she said her name is Kitty, you should have just been like "ok, I'm bsbnsc." Once she says "it's none of your business," there is nothing much you can do: she basically worked you.

Please don't be like, "she is a bich, forget about her."

It's weird how people know the right advice but still don't want to accept it. Yes, you should have just moved on. Why would you want to talk to somebody who is being so rude to you? There are 3 billion girls in the world, and want to waste your precious time on earth talking to a girl who told its none of your business what her name is? Stop trying to bang shitty people.

TheXXL · 2016-10-17T13:52:50+00:00

And she said, "It's none of your business." What could I have said/acted differently?

"Nice to meet you 'none of your business.' "

Classic dad joke haha

perforatedpaper · 2016-10-17T13:42:16+00:00

i wouldve called her something completely different, just a simple joke because you have no connection with that nickname and she wont give up her real name

dauhhh · 2016-10-17T14:04:30+00:00

I fucked this girl for over two months with out saying her real name once.

recyclablebanthas · 2016-10-17T17:24:46+00:00

One time I met this girl fron Ukraine. Her name was Kitty. I told her "That's probably not your real name, what is your real name?" And she said, "It's none of your business."

You should have either commited to being a dick in your opening by questioning her name..... Stuck to your guns instead of meekly running off.

Or you shouldn't have opened by challenging her.

, "she is a bi*ch, forget about her." I was wondering if I had something clever to respond to her shit-testy reaction and turn the table.

Specific comments won't help you. It's too LATE now. You need an attitude adjustment. Either commit to being challenging to a girl if you're going to open with challenge like that..... Or don't open by challenging her.

Title	What could I have said differently?
Author	bsbnsc
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	October 17, 2016 1:14 PM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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