what did I do wrong?

HighJacking · 2017-08-01T18:27:28+00:00

I cringed really hard reading this. You were trying waaay to hard man and it felt needy. I agree with Juanito

JuanitoNinjito · 2017-08-01T17:04:40+00:00

It's very try-hard, comes across that women are scarce in your world and you feel the need to entertain or impress. For the woman, this begins to feel like a chore to respond, and eventually they are likely to decide nah.

midnight_toker22 · 2017-08-01T19:55:03+00:00

Everything. Yeesh that made me want to gag.

I commend you for trying but that was really terrible... it's like you scoured the internet for pickup lines and "PUA text game examples" and then copy/pasted directly into your conversation. I know because I've seen those lines, almost word for word, in other places. I cringed when I saw them as suggestions , and I cringed even harder when I saw them in practice here.

It comes off as extremely inauthentic and phony. Which makes you look needy and desperate. And god help you if a chick catches you using a canned pickup line from the internet on her.

2017-08-01T23:49:49+00:00

That "my good lady" bit was rather neckbeardy.

Endoss · 2017-08-01T20:25:53+00:00

You're trying too hard, and you didn't go for a date/phone number, you're just talking about nothing.

Morokweng · 2017-08-01T17:26:44+00:00

"Badoo is crashing on me haha" - yeah sure it is.

If you have no game don't use online dating as a crutch, get out there and approach some bitchez.

JLSAAAA · 2017-08-01T22:18:01+00:00

Relax! Just relax. She might have a vagina, but she's also a human person, just like you. Talk to her like she's a buddy who's also kinda hot and you tease her with that from to time.

2017-08-03T04:41:11+00:00

I love it when their replies are gradually shorter. I generally stop texting them forever just from that.

Title	what did I do wrong?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	2
Comments	15
Date	August 1, 2017 4:55 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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