What do i improve?

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-10-08T16:51:45+00:00

Your behaviors correct themselves when you remain less interested in the girl than she is in you.

That isn't a mindset that can easily be adopted, you need to find a higher priority than bedding a beautiful woman and stick to it.

Even in my current relationship, my girl could be bare naked in the middle of the night, but if I get a service call for my mobile mechanic business I'm out.

If I refused the call in order to get laid, she would have rolled her eyes at me and rolled over and fell asleep.

Same applies when you are single. If a girl even detects that she is the highest priority for you, she will view you as unfit for survival and reject you

norwegiandoggo · 2024-10-08T21:30:32+00:00

The issue you identified: being too desperate.

Solutions you proposed: - improve looks - improve humor

Sorry to ask. But how do you think these solutions will make you less desperate? They have nothing to do with desperation.

To become less desperate you usually have to do inner work on your self worth issues. Inner game. Therapy. That kind of stuff. Desperation often comes from feeling like you're not good enough.

Alternatively, desperation can also come from being depressed and sad about yourself or your life. Again, inner work is needed. Therapy. Self work. And taking action to improve your life.

Quick-Major8291 · 2024-10-09T00:55:08+00:00

might sound cliche but improve your self-love and confidence.

VeterinarianThen9825 · 2024-10-09T01:52:47+00:00

get surgeries modem day toilets are chads only

epimpstyle · 2024-10-09T15:49:05+00:00

i will call myself adventurous, risk taker

Then why don't you like the current situation? It is full of adrenaline, you never know the outcome, it is perfect for your personality. If you don't like taking risks, then you need to play safer, but you like it, so leave it as it is.

Title	What do i improve?
Author	hdon28
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	October 8, 2024 4:30 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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