what does it mean when she doesn't text back?

Raydr · 2014-07-21T12:17:54+00:00

It means you're over thinking it.

Seriously, let it go.

slackwaresupport · 2014-07-21T12:03:50+00:00

she didnt text you back.. thats what it means.

2014-07-21T14:21:00+00:00

Common sense is a pretty good resource here.

How many girls do you know that don't carry their phone all the time? None, the answer is none. Girls tend to very connected and responsive when they're interested.

Now tell me this, have you ever been pursued by a girl you weren't attracted to?

What did you do? Ignore her texts? Or were you up front and honest and explained you weren't attracted to her? Chances are the former, and that's fine, because in the real world you don't owe anyone an explanation.

So based on common sense, she's definitely gotten your text, and is choosing not to respond, which we've established is a reasonable way to deal with attention from someone you aren't attracted to.

So, why get hung up on someone who doesn't appear to be attracted to you?

Common sense dictates that this isn't a big deal and you should move on.

You might call this "taking the hint" and it's a painful lesson that we all have to learn.

Fuck I just had a girl that flaked and started ignoring my texts after I kissed her for the first time, and that was after our 3rd time hanging out, and she was a pretty cool girl, but I guess she wasn't into it so I moved on. Maybe I'll check in after awhile, but chances are it's done, so I'm not stressing about it. There are too many people in this world to meet to waste time on people who don't want to be involved with you.

headbus · 2014-07-21T12:25:21+00:00

Why are you so worked up over this?

MentalSewage · 2014-07-21T17:48:58+00:00

Just a note bro, if it seems like everybody is sounding kind of dick-ish, don't worry. I once posed this exact question and have since learned quite a bit. Nobody is posting with any kind of bad attitude, but the points are lessons that must be pushed hard.

To answer your question, yeah, let her go. If you send another message, you're going to get the reputation of being creepy (and rightfully so, it's creepy to talk to a girl when she's not talking) Examine where the conversation went dead, reread the context, and learn. But don't take it too seriously, you're going to screw up a LOT more than you succeed for a long time at first.

ThePUA_Baddie · 2014-07-21T13:02:04+00:00

I'm in the same situation, girl didn't back after our first date. I was freaking out about it last night but right now I'm just trying to move on and forget, consider it dead

marmite_cat · 2014-07-21T13:46:18+00:00

Move on bro.... text the next girl!

alex0919 · 2014-07-21T16:22:40+00:00

It means you're going to get a new girl's number on the premise of a date, and text that one.

Rinse, repeat. Quit over complicating things, next her.

acratophorus · 2014-07-21T20:29:03+00:00

This belongs in /r/askseddit as it is asking advice for a specific situation / girl

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Title	what does it mean when she doesn't text back?
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Date	July 21, 2014 12:02 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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