When you like a girl who looks like she should be doing a photo shoot instead of talking to you, you tend to get intimidated by her beauty. Little do you know, this type of thinking is why guys don't get certain women. Instead of having these thoughts that aren't getting you the results you want (for the guys who are struggling), you have to change the way you think about yourself in comparison to the woman in front of you.

*Whenever you approach a woman, you want to have a clear mind. I'm talking about not thinking about getting the girl or her rejecting you. You don't know her at all so don't expect fireworks, but at the same time, don't expect rejection either. During the first encounter, aim to get her respect instead of getting her to like you. Get to know her first.

*Establish respect from day one and be consistent establishing that respect continuously. When you have a beautiful woman in front of you, you tend to let her get away with a lot of subtle and overt disrespect. She's use to this. She has a lot of guys wrapped around her finger. When respect becomes more important than her accepting you, you'll notice that she won't treat you like the other guys. She may end up liking you more because "there's something about you that she finds attractive".

*When you think a woman is out of your league, she becomes out of your league. You get nervous around her. You stumble over your words. You let her get away with a lot of bullshit because, in your mind, you're not trying to fuck things up because you're "so close to getting her". A man who tries to get to know the women first, tends to look more interesting, because while you're trying to get to know her first, you're not doing what every other guy tries to do... kiss her ass and try to impress her.

*Train your brain to not see hot women as being out of your league. No matter how hot she is or how accomplished or rich she is, there's another chick who looks better, accomplished more, has more, and may even treat you better.

So, what goes through your mind when you're trying to get the women you're attracted to?