What hobbies do you recommend to make yourself more interesting?

ether_bandit · 2015-06-07T23:52:37+00:00

What interests you? Do stuff that interests you, don't pick up hobbies to be more interesting. Play videogames is in the same category as watch netflix. A fine activity for winding down or relaxing, but not noteworthy.

fortehz · 2015-06-08T00:07:30+00:00

Nah dude play airsoft like me I'm super 0p3rat0r. Seriously I just do what I like such as reading, redditing, videogames, cooking, and airsoft. I wouldn't commit to a hobby just to impress a girl unless it's pickup of course.

Keendawg007 · 2015-06-08T00:35:23+00:00

Love paintball idea by the way! I play all the time.

But here's another idea since your asking. I think a good/cool alternative would be water skiing. Getting a boat is ridiculously expensive along with storage and insurance depending on where you live. Also I have no way of telling if there is a nice lake to go to, so I don't know if it's a viable option (I live in SoCal, most the lakes are gone unfortunately). Nevertheless, during the summer, I take short, but sweet, lake trips 4-5 days and wakeboard, single ski, and tube. Afterwards I can just chill on the beach with my friends. It's easy to make connections with your neighbors on the shore as everyone is pretty relaxed and you can build a group of people who also have boats to hangout on the lake and party together (Drink responsibly). Some lakes even have cliff jumping spots. Not to mention girls love lakes and it's a fun topic to talk about when discussing future plans or past experiences.

During the night, depending on the location of the lake you can camp or stay in a hotel. For example I often drive down to Laughlin CA, and ski on the river. At night you can explore the casinos and the night life they have there. Although the majority of people who live there are old lol, don't know if that's what you are going for. On the contrary, I used to go to a lake called San Antonio, the beaches are beautiful, the lake was gorgeous, and the camp sites were well kept. Not crowded at all, very few people on "no-name weekends". The weather was almost always temperate. This is the kind of place where you make life long memories with your friends, girlfriend, and/or family.

Something you could practice more frequently would be: mountain biking, surfing, wind boarding, snowboarding, even roller/ice skating, if you get good enough you will look like a smooth mother fucker skating around. Kinda a peacock effect. It also provides a fun and interesting date, slightly retro. That's all I can think of right now. If you actually want to get good, and I mean good enough where girls will drop their pants instantly when seeing you do your thing, you will have to commit and most likely give up something to make time. Just remember it's all about the process. I hope this was helpful, did my best.

-Keen

recyclablebantha · 2015-06-08T12:19:58+00:00

Hobbies should be to please you. Not to make you more interesting for other people.

That said, few things beat partner dancing as a hobby You are out in a crowd that's often welcoming to new guys because the ratio is low on guys. And developing good dance skills with a partner, requires you develop skills that are quite useful for seduction.

Psychocist · 2015-06-08T15:09:32+00:00

Start keeping a list of activities you want to try. Maybe because they excite you or are out of your comfort zone.

Some that I've checked off my list recently:

sensory deprivation tank
massage class
salsa dancing
rock climbing
taekwondo
ninjutso
photography class
meditation group
go karting
science museum
hiking

And I have at least 30 or 40 other things I'd love to do but haven't.

It's really interesting to talk about what it was like in a sensory deprivation tank, and I have a funny story about massage class. Women are impressed by a man that can dance - just mentioning that I do salsa (mainly for online dating) has increased my success with women dramatically.

The trick is to fill your head with different interests. Throughout the day when you're bored, think about what you enjoy doing, or what you've always wanted to try but haven't for whatever reason. Put it on the list. Then start knocking things off that list. You'll start to get excited about what you're doing with your life, and that shit is infectious!

Note, you're not doing this to be more interesting -- that's a side-effect -- you're doing this to live a more engaging life.

Robin-Hood · 2015-06-08T12:53:44+00:00

It doesn't matter what you do as long as you're passionate about it.

Indianbro · 2015-06-08T00:32:45+00:00

Hobbies should improve some aspect to your character. I would recommend meditation, photography, traveling, picking up a new instrument...in other words, trying something new. Outside your comfort zone. That's the only thing that will make you more interesting.

Armorium · 2015-06-08T01:15:02+00:00

Any hobby can make you more interesting, it depends on what you get out of it.

And honestly, so what if your hobby doesn't make you interesting to someone? Treat it like a litmus test. Boring people will dismiss your hobbies outright if they don't like them, themselves. Cool, interesting people will try to find out why you like them and what you see in them, even if it's not their cup of tea.

KilluaKanmuru · 2015-06-08T02:42:39+00:00

Basketball. I think it's the sport everyone is going to be most likely to want to play. Paintball is sick as fuck. I'd be stoked if someone wanted to go paintballing. It's more expensive though, and how often are you going to be playing it? You can ball everyday cuz ball is life.

BradClitt · 2015-06-08T12:17:05+00:00

Simple Answer: What kind of women/ people do you want in your life? Hiker; go hiking, bar people and girls; get to know everybody at the local bar, Girl in band; start band, etc.

The gym should simply be part of your life, not a hobby. And, drop the videogames. There's no reason to have a hobby that which in open company you have no way of relating the accomplishments of your hobbies. Ever met a group of strangers and found your paladin level to be an attraction switch?

samirahmad2594 · 2015-06-08T03:44:37+00:00

Lmfao, I can't believe guys actually want to learn new hobbies to pick up girls. Bro, do what I do just lie to the bishes, say you fly your uncles helicopter on the weekends and make some bullshit around that. I guarantee if the chick is stupid enough, she'll buy it.

batrick-pateman · 2015-06-08T01:39:15+00:00

Spinning records ;)

Title	What hobbies do you recommend to make yourself more interesting?
Author	oritogpe
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Date	June 7, 2015 11:49 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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