What if

UrFavPlayerIsBack · 2021-09-06T02:52:17+00:00

That calls self-rejection. Comes from having few approaches or not changing anything about urself, but still keeping approaching the same way

TheGoldStandard35 · 2021-09-06T04:39:40+00:00

I want to preface this by saying I am not an expert.

You should go into it thinking of course it will go well. You are a great guy who would make someone very happy. You should be confident.

Voltz_got_a_potato · 2021-09-06T04:18:28+00:00

I would say go more with "she wants me" so that you get to atleast squeeze out the confidence and make some use of it. Just don't be a jerk with that mindset tho, it's mostly for the first few approaches towards the same person but a good opener!

Calamity__Bane · 2021-09-06T04:18:55+00:00

Like I only approach thinking it won't go well then I'll only be happily surprised if it goes well?

I see what you're trying to do here, but you'll be more effective if you assume you're likely to get a good outcome than if you don't.

AelfredRex · 2021-09-06T15:20:17+00:00

I think most cold approachers are rejection junkies.

The house always wins at the casino. That's why I bet the horses.

Title	What if
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Date	September 6, 2021 2:37 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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