What is charisma?

Semi-Seductor · 2021-12-16T23:29:30+00:00

Charisma is a certain quality that makes people drawn to them (like an edge).A persons charisma can invoke a lot of emotions like uneasiness (let me know if you want this explain), warmth but mainly curiosity in the individual. Charisma seems to be based on personality which is why it’s different and can’t be learnt but charismatics tend to be expressive, theatrical and most importantly ‘different’.

And no, charisma is NOT the same thing as charm. Charm is what makes a person socially likable. Charisma is the edge of a person. A guy who talks to everyone, touches everyone, smiles a lot and is liked by a lot of people is most likely charming. A talented artist who broods in a corner, lost in his own world is charismatic. Because his energy inspires curiosity in people “why is brooding” , “what is he drawing”, “he looks like a vampire”?

Just because someone is charismatic doesn’t mean that they are liked, Hitler was a very charismatic person. If you want to be charismatic my theory is that you should learn to let go and be confident in yourself, why do you think some men need liquor to talk to women? Because they are “authentically” themselves. However you may not actually possess any charismatic quality still.

makes_mistakes · 2021-12-16T18:38:37+00:00

Book: The Charisma Myth
YT Channel: Charisma On Command

These two should get you started.

Calamity__Bane · 2021-12-16T19:55:28+00:00

People have many different definitions of charisma - I like to go with this: "a non-rational quality possessed by a person that causes others to be drawn to them and want to follow their lead". This is not the same thing as charm, which is more about having social graces and causing others to feel good in your presence - a person can be charismatic without being charming, and vice versa.

Bsquared9088reddit · 2021-12-16T20:19:42+00:00

The best definition ever:

Making other people feel good about themselves

excentrik-art · 2021-12-17T10:18:47+00:00

Charisma is combination of skills, energy, approach and leadership.

Skills like wit, speech, voice projection

Energy, meaning you appear energetic and active even when not trying hard.

Approach, meaning you can approach and be approached by anyone and be welcomed. Staying possitive and smiling.

Leadership, meaning your opinion is respected, you have friends there for you, and you are the active member of the group.

freedom_now3 · 2021-12-17T11:44:43+00:00

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Title	What is charisma?
Author	Mr_ambitiouz
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Date	December 16, 2021 4:49 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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