What is wrong with me?

DesignMyself · 2011-01-08T19:50:10+00:00

Turn it around and look at it this way: a cute girl was interested in you. That shouldn't lead you to conclude there's something wrong with you, it should lead you to think there's something great about you, otherwise, why would a cute chick be interested? I know, I know, confidence should come from within, but beginners with little experience may have trouble even accepting that they can be attractive. I say stuff this in your mental "positive experiences" folder and refer to it if/when you feel inadequate, then try to act next time.

It's the thing that works best for me, anyway. Instead of dwelling on what you did wrong, think of what you did right. You already know you didn't act when you should have, no need to beat yourself up over it. Rather, use this to help you accept yourself as an attractive guy.

/inspirational speech

chumpta · 2011-01-08T19:30:22+00:00

you're inexperienced and were unable to capitalize on a good opportunity. solution: gain more experience

WheresMyBourbon · 2011-01-08T23:30:03+00:00

you got a number. you're doin fine, start from here, learn the texting game, unless you have the balls to call her. Calling is ballsy but has more rewards

afcanonymous · 2011-01-08T23:41:37+00:00

What's the problem?

baconOclock · 2011-01-09T01:10:11+00:00

Don't feel any pressure like you have to lay her the same night. The patience and aloofness you display can make her even more hot for you. Relax, you'll probably get that piece of meat in no time with all the strong indicators of interest she displayed.

Title	What is wrong with me?
Author	DesignMyself
Upvotes	0
Comments	10
Date	January 8, 2011 7:10 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/eykq0/what_is_wrong_with_me/
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