First of all, thank you seddit. I don't recall using many specific techniques suggested here, but more like the awareness and attitude. In addition, seddit has helped keep me from giving up.

Girl I've met other times at parties texted me to see what was up in my part of town. She was with her friend who's interested in a friend of mine. I tell them to come join me and some friends for drinks.

Some of the other times I've seen this girl, she's been real flirty, lots of kino, but she'd sometimes just quickly disappear and I never got her to accept one of my invitations. Last night, she was flirty again, but I was more ready for it. At some point in conversation with me and my friends, either when she was mentioning threesomes or saying I was too sweet for her, I told her firmly but also with a smile and kino that she was "talking shit". I don't know if this had a big effect, but I was essentially telling her that I wasn't just sweet and that she needs to back up all the flirty talk.

We go off to a club. We pretty much stay together-sitting, talking, connecting. We were talking about friendships and I see an opportunity to move the conversation topic to us- get us talking about each other. In one of my first posts in seddit, I wondered if that was a part of flirting. I asked her how her friends would describe her. Then, we were talking about first impressions of each other compared to how we see each other now. Soon after I said I thought she was sexier now, we were kissing.

After that, it was a done deal. We soon left the club, despite some potential clock-blockers making comments after seeing us kiss. No LMR or anything like that.

It seems she was interested in me for a while, but as bold as she is, she still had her doubts about me and I had been at a loss as to how to move things forward.