What proportion of planned dates should be turning into actual dates?

ArdAtak · 2018-09-17T23:57:06+00:00

I know that I should talk to her as little as possible until we meet

Absolutely and utterly wrong. You don't want to seem needy or pushy but you MUST do some comfort building along the way to keep them from ghosting, especially if you plan dates a few days in advance.

A funny, amusing text once an evening or every other evening just to let her know you're still thinking of her and demonstrating some wit, humor, and intelligence from you will work as a 2 pronged attack and also lets you let her know what you're like. You can intrigue and titilate and give tingles long before the date and by the time she see's you she'll already be wet. Good text game goes a long way.

The "text only for logistics" has never worked well for me. Good text game has. But maybe I'm the exception.

daygamebeast · 2018-09-18T00:07:39+00:00

> I know that I should talk to her as little as possible until we meet, at least that's what I've doing

@ArdAtak gave you great comments on this ^.

My guess is you're pushing for the date too hard.

CANCELLED: Happens to me a lot. Maybe 1:3.

STOOD UP: Only once in my life... and I've been on hundreds of dates. That's the redflag in your stats.

ANSWER TO YOUR QUESTION: I think 60% of dates that girls agree to a date should happen. Roughly that.

If you're at 6 in 23, I think you're pushing for dates... the girls are agreeing... but then weasel out as they weren't that interested. Not giving you a hard time, but that's my guess.

I like ArdAtak's advice... you could use some more comfort.

I read Krauser's book Infinite this year... and he was amazingly SLOW in setting up dates. I would have pounced faster than him, and I bet I would have been less successful. His book is full of actual text convos... it's long, but there is great material in there (even if you don't care about daygame).

jenkinsonfire · 2018-09-18T07:23:30+00:00

You’re not missing anything. People can be shit

WIA20XX · 2018-09-18T13:00:05+00:00

How you met these girls is a big factor in them going out with you.

Outcome	Frequency
Actually happened	6
Stood up	6
Canceled by her	5
Rescheduled by her then ghosted	4
Rescheduled by me then ghosted	1
Rescheduled by her then canceled by her	1

Title	What proportion of planned dates should be turning into actual dates?
Author	Virulent-shitposter
Upvotes	8
Comments	9
Date	September 17, 2018 11:48 PM UTC (7 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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