What should I do guys?

seduction-ModTeam · 2024-09-20T13:41:36+00:00

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FarVehicle5333 · 2024-09-20T09:12:21+00:00

That sounds immature. You already gave her a couple chances, break up and move on with your life.

ButterscotchPublic71 · 2024-09-20T08:55:22+00:00

Tough spot to be in. I don't really have an answer but I have gone through something similar. Eventually I had to give up on her, because I just kept losing every time.

Dandys3107 · 2024-09-20T10:27:56+00:00

It is often a problem on the other side, she can't handle her emotions properly. You can try to see through things like something strongly bothering her or she is angry/sad, crack some jokes or hug her or just listen to her.

Other common reason is that she is not happy with your relationship and she doesn't show you respect as she doesn't really care that much about maintaining it. If that's the thing, you better end things before you sustain much more damage.

srwat · 2024-09-20T10:48:21+00:00

Once you (unaware to you) fail some major shit tests, you can hit the point of no return. Best to cut your losses at that point.

With some small mistakes, you can climb back.

You can’t talk your way out of it. If anything, that is making it worse and is making her respect for you only decrease further. Your only hope would be to subtly display enough non-verbal dominance to slowly change the pace of it all over time, but that may even be a fruitless endeavor at this point.

ratfooshi · 2024-09-20T12:45:28+00:00

Well, you like her for a reason.

Maybe you even like a feisty side to her. But not too crazy.

Show her you won't put up with it if it gets too much.

She'll either get the message and dial it back, or turn it up a notch. That's when it's time to go for good.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-09-20T09:28:49+00:00

Sounds like a toddler throwing tantrum. Sometimes parents or partners enable situations like this, that’s why it’s repetitive: because it works. So she keeps doing it because in the past she got what she wanted by doing this, either from her parents or from you.

If I were you I’d break up. Quit wasting your time. You’re not her parents or her babysitter.

DaHouseSomalian · 2024-09-20T10:42:55+00:00

You have to choose between pity pussy and your self respect. Most men choose pity pussy, just FYI.

idontcarerightnowok · 2024-09-20T13:06:00+00:00

End it w her and move on. She's not mature enough for a relationship and clearly can't change, if you want you can try talking to her again, but that's up to you.

Title	What should I do guys?
Author	evilpikachu234
Upvotes	3
Comments	9
Date	September 20, 2024 8:38 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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