What should I do?

dtsanderos · 2022-05-22T17:41:32+00:00

Jesus fuck, this is one single girl out of literal billions. Stop pedestalizing her so fucking hard and move on. Do you not have goals and ambitions in life? Focus on those instead of this girl whose disinterested. You already know deep down youre making her less interested by being obsessed. Move on and be a fucking man who has a life to enjoy. There’s more to life then just women and ruminating and whether they like you.

4ndytemple · 2022-05-22T17:38:40+00:00

Would you be ok with just being her friend??

If she’s not someone you’re friends with just for the sake of being friends then you may need to be honest with her. She’s either just trying to be friends with you which she assumes you are too, or she’s waiting for you to shoot your shot because she likes you in which case everyday you wait is another day she’s seeing lots of other guys confident enough to approach her and be honest.

As someone who was once in this exact position it’s worth putting yourself out there and getting rejected (or not, she very well may feel the same way) over her simply losing interest and finding some other guy who’s willing to put himself out there.

Best of luck to you my man🤝

Ambitious-Ice2357 · 2022-05-22T18:03:01+00:00

Listen to your friends and move on.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-05-22T20:19:22+00:00

You should not become friends with girls you want to fuck. You should be direct from the beginning by hitting on them and flirting.

you are pretty much making all the mistakes you shouldn’t be doing. Oh “you want to give this girl the world” you say?

How lucky she must be right? She has won the lottery with you, why? No clue. Has she earn it? Not particularly…

And yet you want to give her something so valuable, just because.

You are giving away the most valuable thing you can give to a girl, your love, your attention, your resources, your emotional support, just like that, she doesn’t even have to work for it, you just give it all to her.

You know how that comes across? As a scam.

The girl feels you are a fraud because it doesn’t make sense that you are willing to give a girl you haven’t even fucked or kissed at the very least.

Imagine you saw an advert on the internet that said: “Congratulations, you have been awarded a ferrari and a huge mansion in the most expensive city of this country, just because. Just press here to redeem your award and get the keys”

Wouldn’t that feel suspicious? It sounds like a scam, doesn’t it? Cuz you know no one gives away something so valuable for no good reason. It’s just too good to be true.

That’s exactly how girls feel like when you try so hard and are willing to give the the world for no good reason…

The problem is you have no good reasons to try so hard and offer them so much when they haven’t done anything to earn it, which is why you get friendzoned or ignored.

and those guys she hooks up with aren’t willing to give her the world because they know she hasn’t earned it yet, she is pretty sure, but every girl is pretty, she needs to prove herself more if she aspires to have something serious with them.

you are too young to understand how wrong your approach is “oh but i don’t talk to other girls” like that’s your fucking problem dude… Who the hell told you to stop talking to other girls, stop focusing on love with young girls, they don’t give a shit about your love, stop watching disney movies.

Title	What should I do?
Author	Bank-Last
Upvotes	1
Comments	15
Date	May 22, 2022 5:13 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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