What tips does /r/seduction have for gaining the affections of a more quiet, introverted girl?

CapAWESOMEst · 2013-10-20T17:34:09+00:00

This worked for me back in HS, this is before I had any knowledge of attraction and game.

I basically pushed her to try new things. Even though I wasn't the most extroverted person, I made her do things she would've never done. I started taking her to games and heckling, showing her to be carefree, being loud, laughing out loud, trying new food, etc. It was fun!

matrix2002 · 2013-10-20T17:53:18+00:00

You need to connect with her, deep and wide.

Wide= do a lot of activities with her, talk about tons of subjects.

Deep= when you do those activities, it has to be an excellent experience, very fun, yet significant. And when you talk to her, the conversations should be deep and important.

Shy girls are shy because they don't trust people quickly. When she trusts you, she will open up. So, you have to build rapport, trust and develop a deep, special connection with her.

Shallow activities, boring conversations. Trying to impress her. Creating drama. These are all things that will drive her away.

ohircyou · 2013-10-20T18:21:09+00:00

Just talk to her. I'm a shy guy and if girls or guys for that matter talk to me I'd happy to talk to them back. Let her have space, be open, and don't rush things.

PS I'm also trying to hit off on a shy girl, so I'll know how it works out.

sharkacolypse · 2013-10-20T17:59:33+00:00

The same way you attract any woman: be interesting. I was sitting with two guy friends in my college's dining commons last year, and a very quiet girl sat at the far end of our 8 person table. I drew her into our conversation, and connected to her with movie references that only the two of us got. She felt more comfortable with me and my friends and was a real part of our conversation for that meal. My friend tried to get her number, but she was seeing someone. Point is, though, even with a boyfriend she loosened up around us because I gave her a reason to feel comfortable talking with us.

kingcal · 2013-10-21T02:44:55+00:00

The same way you game any girl. Act with confidence and do what you want for yourself.

2013-10-21T13:00:45+00:00

They're extremely annoying to date/fuck. Don't bother. You can do social circle game - raise your value in the social circle and then just blatantly ask them out like "hey I like you do you want to go out"

Title	What tips does /r/seduction have for gaining the affections of a more quiet, introverted girl?
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Date	October 20, 2013 4:34 PM UTC (12 years ago)
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