What to do on a first date!

BensonInFL · 2020-03-12T06:42:50+00:00

and I think they go for too long generally an 1.5 hours.

When I met my second x-wife for the first time, we were supposed to go on a coffee date. I left her house 3 days later..only because I had already called in sick too many times and had to go back to work.... there is no such thing as a too long date

I don't know how to escalate

I alternate between building comfort (by sharing things in common between us.. morals, way of thinking, similiar interests..movies we like, both love animals...ANYTHING..), telling stories (DHV), and flirting (sexual innuendos, touching, holding hands, rubbing her legs, playing with her hair, eventually kissing..etc)

I go on about I date per week but continue to mess up any advice much appreciated.

That's great, keep going... you should be paying attention to any feedback and learning about what is working and not in all the things you are trying...

-B

throwaway5734748 · 2020-03-12T05:31:48+00:00

Where are you meeting these girls?

kfimmis · 2020-03-12T10:34:05+00:00

I have been on a couple of dates lately and it has been for coffee or drinks. They've lasted for about 3 hours and it is always me that ends it. It's a very long time to just be sitting there talking, especially if the one in front of me is not a smooth talker. I get to know so much weird stuff that probably shouldn't be said on a first date, bless them. And maybe i do the same thing, i don't know! On of the dates we went climbing after food which was such a better date, but the connection wasn't there. I'm looking for someone to vibe with so definitely going for connection, and that kind of stuff is out of our control i guess. I'm sure you're great and if you're looking for somone to have a quick experience with then you just need to date until you find someone with the same intentions. Keep ut up 👌

mr_Tobbor · 2020-03-12T21:02:08+00:00

You may date a lot of girls but no lays. If both of you are attracted to each other sex will ensues

rextokyo · 2020-03-12T06:35:02+00:00

What's your date routine?

Ice666White · 2020-03-12T08:21:06+00:00

This.

http://www.gameglobal.net/the-ultimate-list-of-date-ideas/

Title	What to do on a first date!
Author	ALPHACHAD12
Upvotes	10
Comments	16
Date	March 12, 2020 4:56 AM UTC (6 years ago)
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